I'm working with what is apparent based on experience--our perception of reality, existence, as it appears to us in life.
None of us requested to be born; we certainly didn't get a say in who our parents would be or the circumstances of our birth. Genetically, we inherit an awful lot of behaviors, traits, physical and mental attributes, and all sorts of other stuff which pre-disposes us to be a certain way.
Free will? I don't remember casting my vote for this!